B,D,S,M refers to Bondage, Discipline, Sadism, Masochism.
This is in reference to safe sane and consensual play between adult's of there free will, It is not about prostution or unconsensual acts.
It is about Honesty.
Submissives:
If i do not tell Master the truth, i will disrupt the precious Trust that we are trying to build. If i tell Master a lie, it will likely be discovered, since Master is committed to knowing me as i am. How will this be missed?
If I tell my submissive a lie, I risk the destruction of the trust placed in me. My role is to create that trust and then guard it from destruction. I must be careful, when creating an illusion for my charge, that the charge eventually knows which things were true, and which were said for illusion's sake. We will tell the truth to ourselves and others. We will get past the fear and draw on our commitment to trust and forgive. We will tell the truth and thereby draw ourselves closer to our partner.
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What this is about, is Love. Not just erotic love, the kind that deals with the physical.It is about giving someone else the gift of yourself, and finding that it is accepted.If I love you by Dominating you, that is, if you give me the gift of your submission and I accept that gift, my goal as a Dominant is to give back to you more than you have given me. I commit myself to helping you explore your fantasies in a safe and sane fashion, and take you to a place you cannot arrive at alone. You will g et not only my affection, and my thoughts, but my deeds.If I love you by giving you the gift of my submission, i will provide you with a rare and personal canvas, on which you will paint something that is personally yours. I will endeavour to allow you to complete your work of art and your labor of love.
Some standardized contracts and applications for service...
Female service application,female service
Male service application,male service
A simple BDSM aggreement, Contract
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